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Dating Advice - May 2006

The Daily Telegraph circulated a similar article also in 2003 entitled ‘Perfect match, thanks to your mobile’ giving details of “Telstra [has been] examining "proximity dating" technology to go with mobile phones. It could be operational by Valentine's Day in 2004. With location mobile services, you put a profile of whom you'd like to meet and who you are into your mobile, and when you get within 100 metres of someone compatible the phone starts beeping. Profiles could include such things as age, eye and hair colour, height, likes and dislikes, star signs and what you're looking for in a partner. If you've got an MMS phone you can exchange photos, speak to the other person, decide where you want to meet, and even videoconference together. The service will work with existing technology using GPS and software from mobile phone carriers”.


Although this notion of ‘proximity dating’ is yet to surface the popularity of mobile phone and other technological services as a means of interaction with the opposite sex is escalating – which suggests those beeps signaling romantic matches every 100 metres may be in the not too distant future. It reduces a number of risks including shyness, inability to put together a sentence, stumbling over your words and, frankly, making a complete fool of yourself, plus reducing the sting of rejection. These articles, as well as programs such as ‘Single Girls’ from the UK – four single women spend seven weeks on a dating frenzy in London, using all new technological services to snag the man of their dreams - are testament to the uncontrollable and often successful spree of 21st century dating modus operandi.

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The Herald's 'Text in the City'

May 18th 2006 11:20
An article published in The Sydney Morning Herald in 2003 entitled ‘Text and the city’ reported “SMS may be the perfect tool for ‘romantic texting’, but it means flirting is no longer free. Sending such messages as C4U ("crazy for you") or W2BAI ("want to be an item?") will cost the sender up to 25 cents a time - a boon for the carriers, which have become the modern-day Cupids. Virgin Mobile, which estimates 70 per cent of its customers are under 30, charges only 10 cents when both the sender and the recipient are Virgin subscribers. In a recent "love poll", Virgin found 90 per cent of its teenage users flirt by texting, 53 per cent use SMS to ask someone out, and 25 per cent thought SMS would help them "score". Virgin has even released a guide to textual flirting: "The Joy of Text", and hosts regular SMS "love-in" events. In April, the telco will start a dedicated mobile phone dating service in the UK, Flirt Alert, similar to Vodafone's Luv Shack. A more sinister side to the developments, though, is the presence of mobile phone "stalkers": being pestered by someone sending unwanted advances.”
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Even before email and messenger facilities there were answering machines that allowed us to dodge any actual human contact. But these services usually assist us in conversing, however statically, with people we already know and just don’t have time – or don’t want to make time – for a decent conversation over the phone or over a coffee. Many people may have thought this aloof nature of interaction couldn’t possibly develop further than internet chat rooms where we aren’t even sure whether we are talking to someone of the description provided to us. A tall blonde, blue-eyed guy in his 20s with incredibly tanned skin and killer looks could actually be a hunchbacked middle-aged hermit who preys on a discussion of sexual fantasies with young girls… eww…

Just in case you’ve recently been rescued from the islands of Thurston or Attu after years of isolation and haven’t the foggiest concept of what I’m jabbering about, let me welcome to the technology era of tele-cafes, ‘7 men in 7 minutes’ speed dating and sms rendezvousing (and dumping); where chance dating is a thing of the past. It’s all about picking and choosing, tailoring your next interaction with your ultimately desirable character.

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You know those nights when you’d give anything to get some shut eye? You’ve been up and on-the-go since 6am that morning and despite your over-tired state your body just won’t shut down and drift off to the land of nod. If not, then you’re possibly missing out on a pioneering element on the future of relationships.

READ ON

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Conversation

May 8th 2006 11:00
Need a conversation starter other than “so, how you doin’?” Read on:

1) No-one can lick their own elbow

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"He's Just Not That Into You: Your Daily Wake Up Call" and "It’s Called a Break-Up Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy"

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I was looking at the Google ads on my blog page and realized all were about finding the right guy/soulmate/lover/“dirty little fun haver” {Zooey Deschanel, “Failure to Launch”}. Is that a main priority on everyone’s “things to do before I die/turn 30” list?

People are different in all kinds of ways, and when it comes to relationships there are those who want anywhere from fun and no strings to total monogamous commitment – or anywhere between these two extremes. It can hit a couple hard when you both evolve in a relationship and change your idea of where you want to be in the future. You may have started out with the same wants, needs, desires and aspirations for your partnership, but those things can start to slide out of view and become differentiated from the ideas of your partner.

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I was searching relationship blogs on the net after reading a fictitious one that is regularly published
in US Cosmopolitan magazine { by Jessica Hulett – have a read, it’s gold – satire, drama, comedy and a zillion relationship woes sure to ring a bell with every reader.

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Words of Wisdom

May 2nd 2006 12:18
Adrienne Burgess, author of Will You Still love Me Tomorrow?(Ebury Press, $24.95) comments, “If everyone in [a love] triangle can treat each other kindly and with respect, and acknowledge that what is over is over, relationships will be a lot more harmonious all around”, whatever their nature. Remember - love-lorn or otherwise - no matter how angry or rejected you feel now your primary concern should be to maintain civility for your friends’ sake, the new couple’s sake, but most of all your own piece of mind, because this stage always passes.
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Facing Relationship Reality

May 1st 2006 05:44
Anne Hollands, CEO of Relationships Australia, says that getting along with an ex’s new partner is a priority if you wish to pursue any sort of relationship with him. “Seeing your ex with someone else won’t be as painful, [if you shift back to being friends instead of cutting ties altogether] and you’ll probably find you have a lot in common with the new partner too.” You did both fall for the same guy.

When an ex finds a new partner and you are still single the sting of your breakup can resurface. However, once you are able to give the new couple some time alone and are able to refrain from water-works outbursts and abusive outbursts you will have a fair chance of being part of the group.

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